Non-monogamy guide

Ruby Rare

'Brilliant. Packed with practical advice and well-researched guidance, this book is a comprehensive guide to the realities of managing multiple relationships.' - Paul Brunson, author and MAFS dating expert.

“Warm, easygoing, and extremely knowledgeable.” - Megan Jayne Crabbe, author and presenter.

The Non-Monogamy Guide is a guide for anyone interested in consensual non-monogamy: polyamory and open relationships.

This practical and entertaining guide to the rules of unconventional relationships reveals the long history of non-monogamy and explores why today's society favors monogamous, heterosexual relationships as the gold standard.

Ruby weaves together what she's learned from her relationships with humor and empathy, offering empowering tools for navigating the complexities—and joys—of polyamory. She offers expert, if sisterly, advice on setting boundaries and cultivating self-compassion, as well as ways to navigate the many practical considerations of maintaining multiple relationships. The Non-Monogamy Guide shows us that having multiple people in your life (platonic, attractive, romantic) brings happiness, but with each relationship, comes increased vulnerability. This is the modern, comprehensive guide to non-monogamy, helping you build healthy, confident relationships.