Confident Parents, Confident Kids offers an approach to helping parents—and their loving children—honed their emotional intelligence so they could make wise decisions, communicate and relate well to others (even with impatience), and become socially aware and confident individuals. How do we raise a happy, confident child? How can we trust that our parenting sets them up for success? Our confidence develops by understanding and managing our own emotions (i.e., emotional intelligence) and helping our children do the same. Just as in learning to play an instrument, we can improve our ability to skillfully navigate the crazy, wonderful, and big emotions that arise spontaneously as our child grows and changes from chaos to harmony. We want our children to have the confidence that they can overcome any challenge with hard work and perseverance; that they are capable of loving without limits; that they will find their unique purpose; and that they will navigate a complex world wisely. This book shows you how.
With author and teacher Jennifer Miller as your support guide, you will learn:
The lies we've been told about feelings, how they shape our choices, and how we can reshape our parenting decisions to better align with our deepest values.
How to identify the temperaments your child was born with so you can support those tendencies rather than fight them.
How to align your biggest hopes and dreams for your children with specific, practiceable skills, along with new research to support those powerful connections.
About each age and stage your child is at and the range of learning opportunities available.
How to identify and manage those big emotions (that only parenting can bring out in us!) and how to model emotional intelligence for your children.
How to Deal with Your Child's Feelings and Influences: Many individuals and external communities directly influence your child's life, including school, the digital world, extended family, neighbors, and friends.
Raising confident, centered, and happy children who feel the same way about themselves is possible with confident parents and confident children.