We raise our children with love

How to raise your children without hitting them?

250 Real-Life Experiences for Parents and Teachers

Author's name: Dr. Abdullah Muhammad Abd al-Mut'i

The aim of this book is to heal the cruelty in the hearts of parents and teachers, and to activate the capacity for thinking and educational creativity in their minds. You, the generous educator, will then have a heart filled with love and compassion, and your mind will work to think of various and numerous ways to remedy your children's mistakes. Then you will only need to hit your children rarely, and you will be able to treat their mistakes with love and creativity, and without hitting. This book answers many questions that confuse parents and teachers, including: How do you hit your children without losses? 200 real-life experiences. How do you know: Is hitting your children permissible or forbidden? Do you strive for them to be among the "non-sinners" or among the "best of sinners"? Should you hit girls like boys? How do the effects of teachers' hitting last for decades? How can we use intercession in our homes and schools? Is hitting the most powerful thing you can use to punish your son or student? What question should you ask your son before you hit him? How can you live with your children for 3 years without hitting? What is the punishment law mentioned five times in the Quran? What do you say when you hit your children? How do you reduce your son's (or daughter's) feeling of injustice when you punish him/her? How do you reconcile with your child after you hit him/her? This is in addition to stories of fathers and mothers who regretted hitting their children, along with their experiences in stopping hitting their children and using other, more effective and less painful alternatives to punishment.