What if? Two words that make you feel the most intense and harshest kind of regret for what didn't happen. You wish you could turn back time so that what you wanted to happen could happen, and what actually happened, you wish it had never happened. Nothing in this life can turn back time, but why bother and exhaust ourselves with what if? If we can't do anything that might change the course of events, why do we think that we deserve those feelings that come with regret that make us feel worthless because of the things that happened that were not expected and without our awareness? The things that happen suddenly, the things that we have no control over, none of these are worth breaking our hearts and wasting our souls over.